BEGIN:VCALENDAR VERSION:2.0 PRODID:-//https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?//YesWiki doryphore 4.6.7//EN SOURCE:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?api/forms/2/entries/ical BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?Date88AdamSandler URL:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?Date88AdamSandler DTSTAMP:20260905T111124Z DTSTART:20240408T220000Z DTEND:20240409T220000Z CREATED:20250409T145045Z DATE-MOD:20250409T145045Z SUMMARY:Date #88: "Adam Sandler" NAME:Date #88: "Adam Sandler" DESCRIPTION:The Three Points To a Successful Relationship (https://bit.ly/3EfYV4e)\n3 Things to Look for in a Family Man (https://bit.ly/4loJpUk)\nMarriage IS Hard Work...So What! (https://bit.ly/4jp9ZuS)\nWhy We Decided We Don't Want a Normal Relationship (https://bit.ly/4lvuNTt)\nBeing "Hangry" Can Lead to Relationship Problems (https://bit.ly/3Ra5GHJ)\nWhy Reminiscing on Your Dating Days Is Important (https://bit.ly/3G4pqu7)\nHow Procrastination Can Kill Your Relationship (https://bit.ly/3RLcv2A)\nAre You Acting or Taking Action in Dating (https://bit.ly/4lioXVb)\nTheir Love Had Gone Cold (https://bit.ly/4loE4MW)\nThey Had to Confront Her Affair (https://bit.ly/42Epyco)\nThey Had to Give Back Their Baby Boy (https://bit.ly/4i7KYTO)\nThey Regretted Their Divorce (https://bit.ly/3E9AqG3)\nWhen Home Becomes the Office: A Marriage on the Brink (https://bit.ly/4lszk9e)\nFighting for Our Marriage After the War (https://bit.ly/3G0c6a9)\nWe Almost Lost Our Daughter — Then Our Marriage (https://bit.ly/4ibLf8t)\nMarriage on the Move: Loving Through Loss and Relocation (https://bit.ly/3RLcvzC)\n\n“Adam” – what a weird, quirky dude. We met at a local wine bar, and shortly after I met him, a new guy sat next to us. Adam seemed more into talking to this new guy than to me -- his date – the person upon whom he should have been trying his best to make a good first impression. (if this is improper English, so be it – several glasses of wine were drunk tonight for the sake of sanity)\n\nThe whole night, “Adam” was just too strange. He eventually got worse, making inappropriate comments (“Liv Tyler is a nice piece of ass” and “I’ve got to pee”). When he chatted up the 40-something blond to his right with the deep cleavage, I was happy to let him go.\n\nThe highlight of the night? The new guy next to us, and his girlfriend, who joined him a little while later – what a lovely couple! I invited them to an upcoming happy hour I’m hosting.\n\nAnother highlight of the evening: discovering this lovely new wine bar. This region was previously verboten for dates because it was around the corner from This Guy… but since This Guy has been abducted by aliens, I’ve reclaimed this mini foodie Mecca.\n\nMore tomorrow, when sober. \nSource: https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?Date88AdamSandler END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?IncestuousDating URL:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?IncestuousDating DTSTAMP:20260905T111124Z DTSTART:20230415T220000Z DTEND:20230416T220000Z CREATED:20250416T151843Z DATE-MOD:20250416T151843Z SUMMARY:Incestuous Dating NAME:Incestuous Dating DESCRIPTION:5 Tips To Manage The Holidays When You Are Single (https://bit.ly/4jbUUgF)\nDo You Need A Love Detox From Your Ex? (https://bit.ly/4j3luZ8)\nIs Your Ego In Charge Of Fixing Your Love Life? (https://bit.ly/4jdkVfu)\n10 Signs That You Are A Love Junkie (https://bit.ly/4jdMvJw)\n6 Ways To Help Your Children Through Divorce (https://bit.ly/4jBCmpS)\nAre You More In Love With Him Than He Is With You? (https://bit.ly/3Y16ylR)\nWhen You Become Desperate for a Date Night (https://bit.ly/4jbUUxb)\nLosing the Fights in Your Relationship (https://bit.ly/3GcOfEf)\nAdvice On First Dates (https://bit.ly/4lyeqFC)\nWhy Men Don’t Want To Date Strong Women (https://bit.ly/42UqHvJ)\nHow Do I Get A Date? (https://bit.ly/3Emu5ah)\nHave I Found The One? (https://bit.ly/3GcOmzF)\nHow Can I Get A Girlfriend? (https://bit.ly/42KVpZ2)\n3 Steps To Starting Successful Conversations (https://bit.ly/3YomZJl)\nIs It Okay To Tell Her She Looks Fat? (https://bit.ly/4jE0p7H)\nShould I Give Up On This Girl? (https://bit.ly/3XWzL1l)\n4 Things I Should Tell You Before We Start Dating (https://bit.ly/3YA3CwH)\nLife After Divorce: Papers Not Yet Signed & She’s Already Dating My Friend! (https://bit.ly/3EhC0pn)\n\nNo — its not as bad as it sounds (unless you live in Mississippi), but I’m sure you’ve all seen or been affected by the interesting phenomenon in certain friend groups where the girls/guys systematically work thru everyone datable in the group. To be honest, it’s always baffled me. I mean, I am friends with almost all of my exes but not to the point of lets all hang out and I can watch you smootchie all over my friend. And THEN, I get to hear her version of your relationship because, well, she’s my friend and listened to me when I told her all about the romantic date her ex took me on. \n\nMy heart is generous, but not armored for that kind of wear and tear. I’m more of the school — you dated my friend within the last 5 years, so its going to take an act of God to get us together.\n\nBut a lot of people I know engage in this kind of roulette style dating and don’t seem to think anything about it. One of my friends recently explained that she did it (before she married one of the guys in the group) b/c she walled herself off from strange men in an attempt to protect herself. So her guy friends were the only guys who got to know the real person under her famous smile and she relaxed enough around them to develop interest. And another friend sticks to dating friends because they developed a solid foundation to start.\n\nOn the flip side, some of my friends have been incredibly wounded by not knowing that one of those breakups isn’t going to be pretty, so they had to decide, do I lose my friends to save my heart or do I harden up to keep my friends?\n\nAnd then there are those who only fish outside the group which makes it harder to really know someone before letting them into your life and at times the group newbie loses some great friends in the break up b/c the group insider knew them first.\n\nMy question is… for those of you who do this: HOW do you move on like that so quickly and do you really get a good chance for making a clean break of it before dating your next friend? Has it ever harmed your circle to the point of splitting friendships?\n\nAnd for those of you who don’t … Do you have an unwritten code among your friends that exes are off limits or is it something you would consider if the right one came along? Have you ever wanted to date someone in your group and the break up dynamic is exactly what stopped you from pulling the trigger? \nSource: https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?IncestuousDating END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?OnceUponASaturday URL:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?OnceUponASaturday DTSTAMP:20260905T111124Z DTSTART:20220507T220000Z DTEND:20220508T220000Z CREATED:20250508T150218Z DATE-MOD:20250508T150218Z SUMMARY:Once Upon a Saturday NAME:Once Upon a Saturday DESCRIPTION:Public Displays of Affection (https://bit.ly/4iAh4rM)\nSecrets for a More Satisfying Relationship (https://bit.ly/4cJoOpU)\nA Note To Guys About Helping Your Date Feel Safe (https://bit.ly/42Kuong)\nAvoid the First Date Let Down (https://bit.ly/4iyySn7)\nLetting Go of the Control Freak (https://bit.ly/4ixhb7g)\nKeep It Classy America (https://bit.ly/4iOHdDr)\nHow To Be More Emotionally Low Maintenance (https://bit.ly/3S29BGX)\nI Like Me! (https://bit.ly/4itFT8I)\nWhy Are You Still Single? (https://bit.ly/4itFN0Q)\nHow Do You Meet Someone New? (https://bit.ly/3S56OwG)\n\nIt started off kind of like any weekend could. We had plans to go downtown, catch a movie on the big IMAX screen at the Science Center and then dinner reservations at an Italian restaurant we had heard was good. LC got up late and suggested we head out early. The weather was nice, sun was out, and we could walk around downtown a bit and enjoy it. We both got ready and drove out to get some lunch. After lunch we walked around a bit, looked at the water, and hit our first snag.\n\nThe movie wasn’t showing at the time I had seen advertised earlier in the week. Now what? No problem LC assured me, we’d just bum around the city and take it easy. So we walked around for bit. After a while LC was thirsty and I needed a bathroom so we headed into a drug store and asked if they had a restroom. When I came out, LC was sitting near the door. I told him I was ready to go now, but he said he needed to make a stop too. Unfortunately the restroom was inconveniently located behind a door that had to be unlocked by an employee. It was about to shut so I went to run for it. That’s when it happened. I felt this awful pop inside my left leg and froze in my tracks. Luckily someone else came out from behind the door and LC got to use the restroom. When he came out he asked if I was okay and I insisted I was. Just needed to walk it off! No problem! A few steps later, I was almost in tears and LC was convinced I needed to go home.\n\nNo! I don’t need to go home! I just need to walk it off! I’ll be fine! LC wasn’t buying it. I limped around the drug store to grab some mascara and something to rub on my oddly injured leg. We paid for that, plus the soda, and headed off. LC was still skeptical, but I was insistent. So out we went. When I stepped off the curb to cross the street, I shrieked. LC looked more skeptical. I managed to hobble across the street before he made me sit down. He ended up going back across the street to get some aspirin while I sat still. When he got back I took the pills, drank a little soda, and insisted we try to walk around again. LC tried to convince me he would pull the car over and pick me up but I totally panicked. No! I want to walk to the car! I’m going to be okay! So fine, I limped up to the car, by which point I was sore and worn out. I was frantic not to go home though so he finally calmed me by agreeing we could drive around for a bit. It was a compromise I accepted.\n\nWe ended up driving to a nearby urgent care center. I could barely walk and he knew I’d refuse the emergency room. I tried to resist but he wasn’t having any more of it. In we went. I filled out all the little intake papers like a good girl and we finally got into a room. The nice nurse turned on the television for us and we waited some more. LC turned to me and said, “Pretty funny day, huh?” I glared at him. “I don’t think so.” We waited some more. Then the lights in the facility went out. Seriously. As we sat there in the quiet and the dark I turned to him and couldn’t help but laugh. “Now it’s funny.” I told him.\n\nEventually the lights came back on. The doctors wrapped my leg and sent me out on crutches. And we had no idea where to go from there. LC drove us back into the city while I continued to insist that sitting still would only make it worse. He drove to a nice neighborhood by the water and parked the car. I tried to figure out whether I had to walk with the crutches, or maybe just one crutch, or maybe none. He told me we didn’t have to do this. I threw both crutches in the back of the truck and decided to limp.\n\nWe limped across the street and out to the end of a wharf. Finally we sat down on a bench. We talked for a bit. We watched the water for a bit. And eventually LC turned to me and said he had a question to ask me. And right there he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him.\n\nOf course I said yes! And he slipped the most gorgeous ring onto my finger. And that, my dear friends, is how I got engaged.\n\nAfterwards I couldn’t limp much further. He ended up pulling the car around to get me and take me to our dinner reservations for the evening. We had a nice dinner and then came home and put some ice on my leg. And on Monday I’ll call a specialist because I’m still limping.\n\nBut once upon a Saturday, just yesterday in fact, LC proposed to me. And I said yes. And now all we need to do is live happily ever after. I can’t wait. \nSource: https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?OnceUponASaturday END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?TesT2 URL:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?TesT2 DTSTAMP:20260905T111124Z DTSTART:20230530T160000Z DTEND:20230530T170000Z CREATED:20210524T205403Z DATE-MOD:20210621T172914Z SUMMARY:Sortie Culturelle NAME:Sortie Culturelle DESCRIPTION:La culture, moins on en a, plus on l'étale! \nSource: https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?TesT2 LOCATION:Avenue des Champs Elysées 75000 Paris GEO:48.865669;2.3203067 IMAGE;VALUE=URI;DISPLAY=BADGE:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/files/T esT2_presence-photo.png ATTACH:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/files/TesT2_presence-photo.png END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?StillKindOfOnThatDatingHiatus URL:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?StillKindOfOnThatDatingHiatus DTSTAMP:20260905T111124Z DTSTART:20220401T220000Z DTEND:20220402T220000Z CREATED:20250402T153555Z DATE-MOD:20250402T153555Z SUMMARY:Still (kind of) on that dating hiatus... NAME:Still (kind of) on that dating hiatus... DESCRIPTION:Weird Boobs and Little Wieners (https://bit.ly/4ldGi1t)\nOur Son Is Disabled and It's Tearing Us Apart (https://bit.ly/43zqcsQ)\nOur Kids Drove Us Crazy (https://bit.ly/4iT6soS)\nOur Home Renovation Is Wrecking Our Marriage (https://bit.ly/41R0Jd4)\nOur Grown Daughter Moved Back In (https://bit.ly/3XIDpMe)\nOur Dog is Coming Between Us (https://bit.ly/4cxfp4Z)\nMy Teenage Daughter Is Ruining Our Marriage (https://bit.ly/4cdVdEZ)\nMy Stepdaughter Is Ruining Our Marriage (https://bit.ly/445L9LZ)\n(Broken) Laws of Attraction (https://bit.ly/4caKGu4)\nThings You Should Be Doing To Find the Right Man (https://bit.ly/42aQEqp)\nWhy Splitting Costs Isn't Splitting Love (https://bit.ly/4lgI6ac)\nWhy I Like Messed-Up Girls (https://bit.ly/4iKpVYJ)\nPilates It Is A Great Place To Meet Girls! (https://bit.ly/445ZLep)\nHow to Date Your Partner Forever (https://bit.ly/4lgI7uM)\nSlender Young And Pretty Girls (https://bit.ly/4lgI81O)\nDo I Only Date Pretty Women? (https://bit.ly/3FMle29)\nLet’s Just Get Naked (https://bit.ly/4ltSRpR)\nSo… You Want to Date a Single Dad. (https://bit.ly/448hwtA)\n\nI wasn't ready to admit this the last time I wrote (as I was still grappling with it): at the end of my second date with Hoffman, he came back to my place. The connection was REALLY good, and he was completely respectful when I told him that we really shouldn't sleep together -- til I finally said, "oh, fuck it!". And so we did.\n\nMy issues with him having a few pounds? I didn't seem too bothered by it in the moment. We talked about having him spend the night, but I didn't think it was a good idea -- I had to be up early the next day, and I never sleep well when I spend the night with a new guy. So he left, and sent me a very sweet text when he got home.\n\nDuring our next date a few days later, we had a very candid talk -- the sex was fun, but it was too soon. We continued to have a fabulous, intimate night -- dinner, followed by fun live music in the east village, followed by separate taxis home. We had talked about getting together again over the weekend (ie, this past weekend), but he had a friend coming to visit from out of town, and wasn't sure what they were doing yet. He emailed the next day to confirm as much -- the weekend wouldn't work, but he'd contact me early in the week to make plans.\n\nOver the weekend, he sent a very sweet text -- I had sent him a link to something I'd written (something work-related), and he wanted to let me know how much he'd enjoyed it, adding "you don't cease to amaze me!". Very thoughtful. This meant a lot to me -- there have been times in the past when I've wanted to share some of my work with guys I've dated, and when I'd ask if they'd read it, I'd often hear a sheepish, "Not yet -- I've been soooo busy...". I got it.\n\nBy today, I still hadn't heard from him in terms of making plans -- with most other guys, I would have sat back and waited to hear from them, but with Hoffman? I can't explain it, I just feel a certain level of comfort with him. So I emailed him info on a new bar / lounge I'd read about, adding, "we should check this out!". He wrote back suggesting this weekend, and that he "couldn't wait". Nice.\n\nI DO look forward to seeing him again, but am too overwhelmed with work at the moment to really think much about him or any other guys. I'm leaving for a business trip next week that's going to keep me out of town for nearly two weeks, so dating isn't very high on my priority list right now. Just fine by me.\n\n*\n\nAnd now: the Awkward Moment That Wasn't.\n\nMy friends (let's call them Mr and Ms Cool) were having an Oscar party -- these are the same people who threw the party where I met Mr 2010, aka The Invisible Man (after he, well, disappeared). This would be my first party at their place since his Great Disappearing Act of 2010 -- I saw that he was on the invite list.\n\nI wanted to have backup troops with me, but none of my close friends could make it. I then had a brilliant idea: why not invite Smiley, the guy I dated in December? He knows Mr and Ms Cool as well -- I'd brought him to a few of their parties while we were dating. And oh yes -- there might be that added little jab to Mr 2010. When I told a friend, she said, "I LOVE bringing a guy to a party where an "ex" of some sort will be!". I felt the same way.\n\nSaying that, Smiley and I ARE still just friends, at least in theory. Since we last slept together a month or so ago, he has texted me for a last-minute movie or drink, but I've been unable to make it. Not because I didn't want to see him, but (as anyone who knows me can attest) -- I'm a major planner. It's generally very hard for me to do last-minute stuff. If I'm at home after work in my sweats on the rare night I don't have plans to go out, and someone calls me for a spur of the moment drink? It's NOT easy to get me out of those sweats and into makeup.\n\nBut I digress.\n\nI was nervous about seeing Mr 2010 at the party, even with Smiley there with me, and tried to inwardly rehearse how I'd talk to him - I thought cordial-but-cold was best. Turns out the only Oscar-worthy performances were on the TV, as he never showed. I was relieved.\n\nI must admit -- it felt pretty nice to sit next to Smiley on the couch, as we gradually sat closer and closer, and his arm went around my shoulder, eventually playing with my hair, while his other hand caressed mine. He walked me home, and there was some sexy smooching. If things don't work out with Hoffman, I may have to consider some future sexytime with Smiley.\n\nHm, what's that, you say? Oh, you mean about my recent blog post about not sleeping with a guy again until we're in what may lead to a serious relationship? Well - spring is in the air, yada yada yada... I'm hopeful about Hoffman, but it's always good to have a Plan B. \nSource: https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?StillKindOfOnThatDatingHiatus END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?StillRelaxingStillEnjoyingTheRid e URL:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?StillRelaxingStillEnjoyingTheRid e DTSTAMP:20260905T111124Z DTSTART:20220413T220000Z DTEND:20220414T220000Z CREATED:20250414T153144Z DATE-MOD:20250414T153144Z SUMMARY:Still relaxing, still enjoying the ride NAME:Still relaxing, still enjoying the ride DESCRIPTION:You're Never Too Old For True Love! (https://bit.ly/4iv93o5)\nWhy Dating Tips Aren’t Working for You (https://bit.ly/3FZzyUP)\nTurn Your Holiday Blues Into Real Love (https://bit.ly/3RyTAIB)\nLove Problems? Never Run From The Issue - Solve It (https://bit.ly/4jo3MiF)\nYou Need Only One Man To Find True Love (https://bit.ly/4jmDfCs)\nFinding A Man Isn't The Answer (https://bit.ly/3YmJRbN)\nWhy Can't Your Heart And Head Like The Same Person (https://bit.ly/4jqn1YX)\nQuit The Blame Game & Ditch Bad Relationship Behaviors For Good (https://bit.ly/3YsxUBr)\nDo You Have A Love Leak? (https://bit.ly/3XY2X8e)\nWe Got Married Too Young (https://bit.ly/3RdzFhZ)\nWe Keep Tearing Each Other Down (https://bit.ly/4cpSLLy)\n\nSlight tipsy blogging right now (not quite drunk) -- just got in from yet another wonderful date with Mr 2025. He's lovely, smart, fabulous, thoughtful. We had one of those goodnight kisses on the street before I got on my subway -- the kind of kiss that just makes it hard to say goodbye.\n\nI'm still (mostly) sticking to my new motto for this year: relax, and enjoy the ride. I'm feeling really good about him, and am just (trying to) take this moment by moment. Every so often I get a twinge of "this may be too good to last / the rug might get pulled out from under me", but then it usually disappears pretty quickly.\n\nThankfully, I'm NOT at all itching to ask what he's "looking for", the way I felt with Smiley early on. (I checked my notes: I first had a hint of a talk with Smiley on the subject on our eighth date). I think it's because I suspected that Smiley was similar to other in-career-limbo guys I've dated in the past -- the kind of guy who feels that he needs to sort out his own life first before he can think of sharing it with someone else. And I was right. You know what they say about trusting your gut.\n\nMr 2025 seems to be happy and successful in his career, so thankfully, no career limbo there. Of course that means nothing in terms of what he wants in a relationship, but it could potentially be one less obstacle.\n\nFor now, my gut is giving me two thumbs up (guts have thumbs...?). Next date already in place for this weekend. I have a new Jdate planned before then, but I feel that I'm just going through the motions right now. \nSource: https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?StillRelaxingStillEnjoyingTheRide END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?TheRealDealAboutDatingAppsAfter4 0Tips URL:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?TheRealDealAboutDatingAppsAfter4 0Tips DTSTAMP:20260905T111124Z DTSTART:20220403T220000Z DTEND:20220404T220000Z CREATED:20250404T145718Z DATE-MOD:20250404T145718Z SUMMARY:The Real Deal About Dating Apps After 40: Tips, Tricks, and Traps. NAME:The Real Deal About Dating Apps After 40: Tips, Tricks, and Traps. DESCRIPTION:Dump Now or Wait? The Eternal Breakup Dilemma (https://bit.ly/4j2M0BK)\nDating a Divorced Dad (https://bit.ly/4iO6oGJ)\nTorn Between Two Lovers (https://bit.ly/4iUAvwp)\nThe Truth About Online Dating Deception (https://bit.ly/4iUkJBI)\nOnline Dating Texting (https://bit.ly/4hXPcgP)\nTurn the Hose on an Old Flame (https://bit.ly/4iKaL5I)\nDating My Sister’s Ex: Is It Weird or Fair Game? (https://bit.ly/4iUm2R4)\nFlirty Friends or Something More? (https://bit.ly/3FMDWXa)\nMy Boyfriend Too Focused on My Looks (https://bit.ly/3Ybxiju)\n\nBen showed all the signs of unavailability. He didn’t confirm our first date. He said he would, and he didn’t. That showed me his word meant nothing, that he wasn’t dependable. When he did call, he told me he didn’t confirm because he forgot. He forgot me. I wasn’t on his mind. He disregarded our date. Yet I gave him a chance to prove me otherwise.\n\nFast-forward hours later. He texts that he will be late. Something about work. He apologizes, and I decide to be nice, to be understanding. He sets a new time of 8 p.m.\n\nNext, 9 p.m. rolls around, and I am waiting for him to call me. I am sitting on my couch, dressed up in a white top with black and white leggings, and red pumps. I feel pretty and infuriated. I feel like a fool. I check my phone every few minutes and see nothing. Finally, he calls. He’s a few minutes away.\n\nWe meet a few blocks from my apartment complex. I am cold and distant. He notices. And I notice he’s wearing jeans and a white t-shirt. No effort. Because he thinks I don’t deserve it. Because I led him to believe this behavior is acceptable. Because I said “yes” when he showed no follow through, and so he isn’t following through.\n\nYet, I let him kiss me. Two hours into our date, he leans in and kisses me in public. I knew then and there that our “relationship” would be purely sexual.\n\nAnd it was.\n\nBecause I date unavailable men. I have settled for less than I deserve time and time again. It is a struggle that I have lived with for most of my adult life. One that I am ready to demolish. I don’t want to survive in relationships. I want to thrive. I don’t want to prove to a man that I deserve love, consistency and respect. I want a man to know that I do.\n\nIt all begins with me. This year, I will make better choices. I already am. I let Brian go months ago. I refuse to settle. Moving forward, I will say “no” to mediocrity. I will only allow men in my life who reflect a Sujeiry who is ready for a love that is available.\n\nA few of my friends joke around and say they suffer from the “JLo Syndrome.” \nSource: https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?TheRealDealAboutDatingAppsAfter40Tip s END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?WelcomeBackAVAndSomeNonUpdates URL:https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?WelcomeBackAVAndSomeNonUpdates DTSTAMP:20260905T111124Z DTSTART:20230410T220000Z DTEND:20230411T220000Z CREATED:20250411T151122Z DATE-MOD:20250411T151122Z SUMMARY:Welcome back, A&V;! (and some non-updates) NAME:Welcome back, A&V;! (and some non-updates) DESCRIPTION:We Battle Constantly Over Our Autistic Child (https://bit.ly/44iTe00)\nWe Became Parents and Fell Out of Love (https://bit.ly/4cKWSSR)\nWe Became Parents...and Stopped Having Sex (https://bit.ly/4lpTDnD)\nWe Can't Agree on How to Raise Our Child (https://bit.ly/4ibBerW)\nWe Can't Get Over Our First Marriages (https://bit.ly/3FYRYFt)\nStress Of Infertility Is Hurting Our Marriage (https://bit.ly/4logsb5)\nWe Can't Have a Baby (https://bit.ly/4cr7Axr)\nWe Can't Get Pregnant and It's Driving Us Apart (https://bit.ly/4cryRzX)\nIt's Time to Be Real in Your Relationship (https://bit.ly/3G4ZuP5)\nPop Your Comfort Bubble & Open Up To Love (https://bit.ly/4iYISHa)\nFind Yourself Before Finding The ONE (https://bit.ly/42DqoGp)\nIt's Not HIM Who's Afraid To Commit (https://bit.ly/4j59XZu)\nHow to Setting Boundaries Brings People Closer (https://bit.ly/3YoGRvE)\nDoubt Is Totally Keeping You From Finding Love (https://bit.ly/43OxJnM)\nDo You Suffer From Pre-Mature Love Manifestation? (https://bit.ly/4lpyBFF)\nAre you looking for the finish line in love? (https://bit.ly/3YmbJwQ)\nLearn the One Rule for Love and Dating (https://bit.ly/43JKv6Z)\n\nMy old blog buddy, formerly known as Amore & Vino, has found herself a new URL home -- Single in the (Napa) Valley. Pay her a visit to say HI, and pass on a few words of encouragement!\n\nMinor updates:\n\n I heard from Martin for the first time since the breakup early in the week -- a mass email, inviting me to his upcoming birthday party. No thanks -- no response necessary.\n\nI felt a twinge of missing him for a half-day or so after the breakup -- but as I biked through his neighborhood a few days later, I realized that I was feeling relief to NOT be dating him any longer. He just wasn't right for me, but I was initially willing to overlook that for the sake of a good connection and fun companionship. Lesson learned, I hope.\n\n I'm convinced that DogMan (https://cccpaysvert.be/animateurices/?DogMan/edit&newpage=1&theme =margot&squelette=1col.tpl.html&style=margot.css) isn't interested in me, despite hours of easy convo on our date the other night. I know -- "The Rules" dictate that a woman should wait for a man to make the first contact after a date, but I got impatient: two days after the date, I emailed him some info that I had promised I'd send, signing off with a breezy "have a great weekend -- talk soon". (eh, I've always been a rule-breaker anyway)\n\nHe wrote back a short while later, thanking me for the information, and wished me a great weekend as well. Polite, but not exactly warm. No suggestion of talking soon or getting together again. It's fine. Onward!\n\n* As Guy Friend reminded me: it doesn't seem like it's a match with him, but you've got 5-6 other chickens in the oven, so to speak. It's true. I already have two dates planned in the next few days, in addition to communication with other J-guys simmering away. 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